My apartment complex forced us to get Dish Network. I have had Tivo for about 2 years now and simply want to hook it up through the Dish Network receiver. So I ordered the serial cable from Tivo. Of course, the end that is supposed to go into to the Dish Network receiver is not right (the prong piece with the wires, not the single input side). Is the only other way to use the Tivo IR setup (which I heard is super slow). I just want to use all of my fabulous Tivo features while changing the channel on the satellite. (oh and please don't tell me to get a Dish Network DVR, it is NOT the same; you would understand if you had Tivo).

tonalc1's answer is correct.